CHILDHOOD SEXUAL ABUSE PREVENTION
 

Teach your child/children important telephone numbers, e-mails, and how to send text messages.  Always allow your child/children to know that you trust them, and want to keep them 'SAFE.' Make sure they know how to contact you,  and or their Grandparents, and  family members you trust to keep them "SAFE". Tell your child/children you “LOVE” them Encourage your child to share their  concerns and
problems with you. Talk with your child/children about their bodies. Tell them their bodies are very “SPECIAL" and " PRECIOUS ". And no one has a right to taught them. Tell  them their bodies belong to them alone.  Tell your child/children that you trust them, and want to keep them 'SAFE.'    

 Tell your child/children you “LOVE” them and want them to always be safe in your present, and when they are not in you present.       Parents always maintain open lines of communication between you and your child/children. Tell them that no one cares about them more then YOU ! Parents don't distance yourself from your child/children, your relationship is " IMPORTANT" to them.   It is how they will develop in other relationships with their siblings,extend family members peers, friend, professional relationships and Religion relationships. Parents always

remember to be the most important person in your child/children " LIFE ".  Ask your child/children questions about  how they  spent their  day ,  how was school ? who did they talk to ? who they talked to them ? and what did they talk about ?  Children are a " GIFT " from God to you and me.  Parents always give your child/children your approval, love them  unconditional. Give them "KISSES, AND HUGS".  Teach and tell them what a good touch and bad touch is. Parents anyone is capable of abuse ( family members, close friends, teachers, clergy, scout leaders, doctors, and strangers, etc.)

Children can be abused in their homes, daycare centers, schools churches, and in their communities, etc .Parents spend quality time with your child/children. Be apart of your child/children planned activities in school, church, and in the community.  When outside don't send your child/children in the Bathroom alone always go with them.  Never leave your child/children unsupervised, or with a stranger. And don't leave your child/children  at home, or in a car, or taxis or with a pets alone. Always remember go with your gut feelings about family, friends, and babysitters,  come home early unexpectedly to check on your child/children daily.​

     Parents always remember children are people and have feelings too. An abused Child or children is a trouble child/children waiting to explode in gangs, drugs, jail, teen pregnancy, prostitution, and domestic violence, become Abusers themselves, and /or mental illness). Parents child/children do what they learn when they grow up. If your child/children have been abused get professional 'HELP' REMEMBER CHILDHOOD SEXUAL ABUSE DOES NOT GOES away" BECAUSE THE ABUSE HAS STOP". Childhood sexual abuse exhibit life long behaviors in the child/children developmental process (adolescents years,. and adulthood years abuse can manifest into inappropriate behaviors in children and adult years.      Always listen and talk to your child/children make the time for them. Spending time with your child/children is important to them and you.Parents always know where your child/children are, and whom they are with.   Believe your child/children tell them childhood sexual abuse is not their fault.  And thank them for telling you. 

"A SAFE CHILD IS A HAPPY CHILD AND GROWS INTO A PRODUCTIVE ADULT"

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